Don't Forget To Dance

mespock

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I recieved this from a fellow teacher and good friend. A few years ago they lost their son (and one of my former students)when the truck he was in brakes failed and he and another boy lost control. He was a senior in High School 18 years old.

Read once and then read again - this is so true!


READ THIS VERY SLOWLY... IT'S PRETTY PROFOUND.

Too many people put off something that brings them joy just because they
haven't thought about it, don't have it on their schedule, didn't know it
was coming or are too rigid to depart from their routine.


I got to thinking one day about all those people on the Titanic who passed
up dessert at dinner that fateful night in an effort to cut back. From
then on, I've tried to be a little more flexible.

How many women out there will eat at home because their husband didn't
suggest going out to dinner until after something had been thawed? Does
the word "refrigeration" mean nothing to you?

How often have your kids dropped in to talk and sat in silence while you
watched 'Jeopardy' on television?


I cannot count the times I called my sister and said, "How about going to
lunch in a half hour?" She would gas up and stammer, "I can't. I have
clothes on the line. My hair is dirty. I wish I had known yesterday, I
had a late breakfast, I t looks like rain." And my personal favorite:
"It's Monday." .She died a few years ago. We never did have lunch
together.


Because Americans cram so much into their lives, we tend to schedule our
headaches. We live on a sparse diet of promises we make to ourselves when
all the conditions are perfect!


We'll go back and visit the grandparents when we get Steve toilet-trained.

We'll entertain when we replace the living-room carpet. We'll go on a
second honeymoon when we get two more kids out of college.


Life has a way of accelerating as we get older. The days get shorter, and
the list of promises to ourselves gets longer. One morning, we awaken,
and all we have to show for our lives is a litany of "I'm going to," "I
plan on," and "Someday, when things are settled down a bit."


When anyone calls my 'seize the moment' friend, she is open to adventure
and available for trips. She keeps an open mind on ne w ideas. Her
enthusiasm for life is contagious. You talk with her for five minutes,
and you're ready to trade your bad feet for a pair of Rollerblades and
skip an elevator for a bungee cord.

My lips have not touched ice cream in 10 years. I love ice cream. It's
just that I might as well apply it directly to my stomach with a spatula
and eliminate the digestive process. The other day, I stopped the car and
bought a triple-decker. If my car had hit an iceberg on the way home, I
would have died happy.


Now...go on and have a nice day. Do something you WANT to.....not
something on your SHOULD DO list. If you were going to die soon and had
only one phone call you could make, who would you call and what would y ou
say? And why are you waiting?


Make sure you read this to the end; you will understand why I sent this to
you.


Have you ever watched kids playing on a merry go round or listened to the
rain lapping on the ground? Ever followed a butterfly's erratic flight or
gazed at the sun into the fading night? Do you run through each day on
the fly? When you ask "How are you?" Do you hear the reply?


When the day is done, do you lie in your bed with the next hundred chores
running through your head? Ever told your child, "We'll do it tomorrow."
And in your haste, not see his sorrow? Ever lost touch? Let a good
friendship die? Just call to say "Hi"?

When you worry and hurry through your day, it is like an unopened
gift....Thrown away.... Life is not a race. Take it slower. Hear the
music before the song is over.




"Life may not be the party we hoped for... but while we are here we might
as well dance!"

In Memory of Ryan!
 
Good post Rich, more and more my philosophy since I have lost so many friends and loved ones the past 9 years. This is the main reason I am trying to reconnect with old friends. On a sadder note, my wife found out that her favorite uncle and her godfather has a malignant brain tumor. His daughter, my wife's favorite cousin whom she was very close to, died in 1997 in childbirth 5 days after my father died.
She had a rough night last night dealing with it as she used to work in the brain tumor center at Duke and realizes the chances for him to survive are basically zero.
 
Interesting post Rich........but if I did everything I wanted to I'd be in a lot of trouble! I'd say the same thing goes for Joey :D
 
Sorry to hear that Scott. Life is short, and there is so much to do. Dave, there are limits LOL.. but we still can have a lot of fun. This weekend would be a great time for the Midwest at the Auto Show. But I'm going to have fun watching my daughter run at a track meet. I only have 1 more year of track with my daughter.
 
mespock said:
But I'm going to have fun watching my daughter run at a track meet. I only have 1 more year of track with my daughter.

Perfect example of the post!
 
Good post Rich, It is true life is to short to sit back and worr about the little things in life. Seize the moment when you can. Good advice right there.
 
An excellent post Rich, life is to short to ignore the things you want to do!!
 
mespock said:
Sorry to hear that Scott. Life is short, and there is so much to do. Dave, there are limits LOL.. but we still can have a lot of fun. This weekend would be a great time for the Midwest at the Auto Show. But I'm going to have fun watching my daughter run at a track meet. I only have 1 more year of track with my daughter.

It was a great meet. My little HS Junior finished 3rd in the 400 m, 6th in the 55 m, 11 in the 200 m, (there were like 30 runners entered), and 5th in the Long Jump. She's only been working on her base doning 20 min runs when temps are not below Zero 2 to 3 days a week for the last month and lifting 2 days a week for the last 3 months, vs these college students who have been training since Sept.

It was a very fun day. I hope the Auto Show went well.
 

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