traditioinal soap bucket with turtlewax car wash, and a hose/spray nozzle. i wash the car with some car washer glove thingy that i got at autozone for $10. then to scrub the bugs off the front, i gotta use something tougher than that soft car scrubber, but not tough enough to scratch the paint.a good cotton towel, some bugoff, and a LOT of elbow grease works for me..
for the wheels, use a wheel brush, and LOTS of elbow grease too.
i use a cotton towel to dry, i just use 100% cotton beach towels. its VERY absorbent.
first i use one to quickly soak up most of the water off the car, then i use the second one to really dry each section nicely.
in the summer, i wax once a month. (MY CAR, of course!!!
) and use some $7 wax-as-u-dry stuff every wash in between real waxes. it takes 45 minutes to wash & dry, 20 minutes on the wheels, another 30 minutes to clean the inside & wash all windows. by the time im done with that, i'm usually too tired to spend another hour & a half waxing the damn car too! but its gotta be done at least once a month in the non rainy weather... :L
right now it rains every week, so i have only hand washed the car once since winter...until rainy season is close to being over, the cheap $6 drive thru wash works for me... no sense in handwashing the car when its just gonna get dirty 2 days later. teh only way i'll handwash it is if i know it wont rain for a MINIMUM of 3 days. way too much work for it to get yucky in 2 days!