I have a 2003 TBird as well, and, yes, the TBird sites are like senior citizen retirement homes. But, at age 72, I'm right at home. (Bought mine when I was a young lad of 60.)
The retro TBird targeted older folks like me, which is the primary reason that we'll probably never see another Ford "TBird" product. The number of older folks who remember TBirds from their younger days is dwindling.
I bought my TBird to cruise, my LS to have a little fun, and kept my 64 Galaxie for 47 years just for fun and to have an empty hole where I could throw money.