The Ls isn't paid for is the biggest issue and financially I'm not so well off. I took a huge force deduction in pay this year when the economy did it's flop in order to keep my job and we're talking like $2000 less a month and I have barely able to keep my head above water every since. I put $20,000 into my house and do you think I will see a dime of that when she sells it? Couple that with the marital split and I'm wearing cement boots on the dock! There is no counseling with her this is a many times over failed relationship and goes way beyond unhealthy for not only me but for my two little girls who have had to continually here that bad things spoken and see me told to get out all the time. It has never been a good relatonship, we may have had some good times but over all it's been a life sapping black hole for the last 6 years of my life. As far as parental rights, i got screwed and don't have the money to fight it right now. My oldest daughter is not biologically mine but I treat her as my own and always will. I have been the only real father she has ever had or known. My youngest is biologically mine but her mom never would put my name on the birth certificate and our marriage was technically only common law but we still had to sign a separation of property and termination of common law. With out a really good attorney and a bunch of money I'm screwed and she knows it.
as far as the LS, I want to keep it but I need to sell it for what i owe and get another car. I have been looking at a Toyota Supra so it's not all bad. They are my fav second to the Ls.