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I love it, on Sunday afternoon over at my inlaws someone tried to pry the chrome license plate surround off the trunk. They succeeded in breaking the one mounting point and now the lincoln badge gaps from the trunk like 1/4 inch. I know the car alarm was on when it happened since I had to rearm it after getting something from the trunk. When I saw the damage I asked oldest son, my nephew and niece if they had seen anyone messing with the car. They all said no.
Yesterday, while I was trying to make the online purchase to replace the panel, My youngest son asks me why I have to buy the part.
Then my 6 year old tells me that on Sunday his seven year old cousin was showing every one the ls after I rearmed the alarm. He was pointing to parts of the car with a plastic sand shovel. He also said when he was showing the other kids back around the trunk, the kids all started laughing, then a bunch of them all ran off. My son who had no interest in what his cousin was doing, came in and told my wife that "Justin is touching the car" and my wife did nothing.
My nephew has some issues with what I call 'Raccoon Hands" he just has to worry at things until they break and if he had anything in his hands things just get broken faster. He also will deny that he did anything to whatever item was broken.
Now I do not have proof that he tried to pry the trim off, but it would almost be enough for the police to make another parent pay for it. When I tried to get my wife to discuss this with her sister, she first acted like it was nothing big, said we should not stir things up right now, and wanted to know why was I mad at her. I pointed out that first off Chris tried to tell her what was going on and she took no action. Second I told her how much the part lists for and she is really pissed now.
But we both agree that the first thing that both my SIL and her husband will do is try to put it back on us that we are picking on their son, even though the has trashed the back of her minivan prior to this. Bringing this up will cause a lot of agina for my wife, her father and rest of the family. Particularly since I feel that they should pay for the part with money that they were going to use on things like some summer day trips for him and his sister.
Now I'm the bad guy because I don't want to drive either of the nice cars over to the inlaws (I only want to drive the 'rat' our tire out pathfinder).