Well,,, don't have a valid zip code... but this may be a start in the right direction.
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Add a good zip code,,, and something may come up.
If they're selling other wiring harnesses,,, most like the cars are mostly stripped. At least to the point that the big ticket items are gone, (that are worth anything).
I know that the places you called said they didn't have one... but truthfully it's probably not worth their time to pull what you are looking for. They would consider that part inconsequencial. So even if they said "no",,, that doesn't actually mean no.
Might take some legwork and driving to find a harness. In the process you might find other parts needed and wanted.
In recently helping a friend,,, I spent a few hours in a boneyard. Out of curiosity,,, I asked about the sunroof glass for an LS. I was told $40 if I pull it... and $75 if they did it. There was one sitting loose on the roof of one LS,,, so no labor time involved. That was a "no brainer".