Socialism is a system advocating social and economic equality.
I assume you are pointing out that social justice is unique to socialism, which I would agree with.
This is why it cannot exist in a fascist state.
But both Nazism and Fascism are rooted in social justice. While Nazism may end up obscuring it's social justice aims to some degree with it's irrational, extreme, and genocidal identity politics, with Fascism it's roots are much more clear; just look at the intellectual lineage behind it's creation.
Fascism was created by Mussolini, who, as a child, was read bedtime stories from Das Kapital, was named after socialist heroes of the time and was, as an adult, a socialist advocate/writer/intellectual as well as one of the most recognizable socialists in Italian politics until he had a falling out with the party establishment over World War I when he supported a nationalist position of entry into the war while the Italian Socialist party supported the internationalist position of staying out of the war. Mussolini's justification for entry into the war was rooted in Marx's writings and doctrine. It is from this difference in national socialism vs. international socialism that Mussolini's Fascism was conceived.
Still, even when the Italian socialist attempted to ostracize Mussolini, he famously told them:
Whatever happens you won't lose me. Twelve years of my life in the party ought to be sufficient guarantee of my socialist faith. Socialism is in my blood.
Fascism, more so then Nazism, was socialist to it's core. It's platform and policies were rooted in social justice (and ideas derived from social justice) and in Marxist doctrine. The biggest difference was that it rejected international socialism for a new, nationalist stripe. Mussolini also employed populist rhetoric over economic class warfare.
Yes, there is totalitarian government control, but under socialism, individualism and individual identity is respected as long as there is social equality.
Individualism conflicts with social justice (social "equality" as you say) because of the collectivism necessary to further social justice. This is why socialism does not respect the individual except in misleading rhetoric; individualism is incompatible with collectivism.
There is technically no separation of classes, because in a true socialist society, there are no capitalist or monetary transaction, all people are "given" an equal amount based upon their needs and all people are expected to contribute evenly based upon their ability.
Change "a true socialist society" to " a true communist society" and I would agree with that statement.
Socialism, in theory, works to weaken those class distinctions; but the ideology is focused on the process of weakening those distinctions; toward expanding and maximizing social justice. Socialism is not focused on being a classless society; that is where communism comes in.
Granted, that goes against human nature, so that is why socialism, in and of itself, does not exist.
Your first point hit the nail on the head; socialism, in any form FAILS because it goes against human nature. But the second point of saying that socialism does not exist makes a bit of a logical leap.
Just because a government is an imperfect implementation of an ideology does not mean it is not rooted in that ideology. By this standard, our nation was not founded as a liberal nation (in the classical sense).
Instead you only have the implementation of some socialist ideas or people twist the principles to create something else that they call socialism.
Again, you are running with that "orthodox socialist" standard. If you are going to to that then you need to confront the challenges to that standard raised in my previous post; I laid them out in bullet points and explained them in the rest of the post.
Fascism has the view that citizenry should share a collective identity and individualism is repressed.
A view derived from Marxism.
There also must be a strong head of state in a fascist regime, and there is a separation of classes that are generally difficult if not impossible to move out of.
Because Fascism suffers from the same inherent flaws of all Marxist derived ideologies; the theory doesn't fit with reality when it comes to human nature, among other things.
The understanding of Fascism you are employing seems to be derived differently then your understanding of socialism.
If we take the standard you use concerning socialism and apply it to Fascism, then what you are calling Fascism is not Fascism at all.
Fascism, as an ideology is opposed to class distinctions (just like socialism, and for the exact same reasons) as well as being opposed to elitist distinctions. The fact that, in the real world, those distinctions do exist under Fascism would mean that it is not, in fact, Fascism.
Facism is opposed to liberalism, marxism, socialism and other "enlightened" views.
Fascism and Marxism, for the same reasons, are both opposed to liberalism (in the classical sense, which is as it was understood when Marx wrote his works and when Mussolini created Fascism).
Fascism is only opposed to international socialism. It is said that both Lenin and Mussolini said, "the Socialist International is dead" upon the outbreak of World War I.
Fascism is opposed to liberalism, but the idea that it is opposed to socialism is false; likely stemming from the rhetoric of the Italian Socialists aimed at smearing and marginalizing Mussolini around the outbreak of World War I.
There is NO social equality in fascism, fascists believe in ethnic purity
Fascism does not believe in "ethnic purity" (though that agenda was eventually imposed on Italy by the Nazi). I think you are confusing Nazism with Fascism.
Also, both Fascism and Nazism were rooted in social justice. Just because they never achieved true social justice doesn't change that fact.
the collective should work for the head of state under a fascist regime, not the collective as marxism and socialism say.
Again, you are applying a double standard here in your judging of what socialism is and what Fascism is. You seem to be defining Fascism by the results of it's policies while ignoring the rationale for those policies, the rhetoric, the platform or the intellectual lineage of Fascism.
However, in defining socialism, you are dismissing the results of it's policies, as well as the rationale behind them and focusing exclusively on the intellectual lineage of socialism (and only up to a certain point, at that).
Under both Fascism and Marxism individuals work for the collective good in theory, but in reality they work toward the ends of the state.
...one must make distinction, otherwise it is just pointless rhetoric.
One has to recognize legitimate distinctions as well as where and how distinct ideas overlap. Arbitrary distinctions that ignore any overlap in ideas give too much emphasis on false distinctions and only inject more subjectivity and confusion.
Marxism and Socialism are really not bad things, it would just be impossible for them to exist in the real world
I will agree to a point. Marxism, in theory, is not a bad thing. And if it could be enacted and work as it does in theory then there would be a very compelling argument to enact it.
However, Marxist theory is heavily flaws and those flaws are why Marxism in any for ALWAYS leads to tyranny.
You hit the most fundamental problem; it's flawed understanding of human nature. From that fatal flaw, all other flaws are ultimately derived; including the most direct flaw of equality being substituted for justice and equality being the overriding goal of Marxism and marxist derived ideologies.
and they don't blend organically with other forms of government, therefore problems usually arise (insert bad stuff here) when one does try to blend them.
Agreed. Problems arise when Marxism is mixed with other things.
However, it is not because Marxism is mixed with other forms of government that the problems arise. It is because of the inherent flaws in Marxist theory that problems arise.
The mixing of Marxism with other forms of government only plays a part in how those flaws manifest themselves, and to what degree.
If we are going to continue in this discussion, it might not be helpful for a moderator to move these last few posts into a different thread.