I've gotten lost along the way here. Are we assuming that people can be rehabilitated, and the alternative view is that people cannot be rehabilitated, but we are not entertaining the idea that some can and some cannot?
I was drawing a dichotomy. The rehabilitation thing is incidental to the broader point I was raising. Unfortunately, confusing things is what Fox excels at, as this thread demonstrates...
How would you suggest dealing with someone who habitually and shamelessly deceives and distorts? When I point that out, it isn't simply meant as a personal attack in lieu of a substantive argument, it is to shine a light on her pattern of distortion and dishonesty.
Do you not find it equally as rude for someone to constantly ignore counterpoints you have raised to their points, to misrepresent your arguments and to try and deceive you?
I have tried being nice to her and she continues to distort. When I try and debate her, she simple continues to spin one way or another and the thread simply becomes her distorting and me constantly untangling those distortions to simply have her distort things again. She has demonstrated to me both her and in private messages that she does not discuss things in good faith. How do you deal with someone like that besides calling them on it?
One example (I think it is in the "bitch and bicker" thread); she claimed to engage other on the politics section of this forum to understand opposing points of view. I can tell you, from the post she made that the point I raised in this thread she doesn't understand (though she would likely never admit it). Does her post here strike you as the action of someone who wants to understand a point that is unfamiliar to her? Or does it seem more like the action of someone looking to either distort the point to fit their preconceived notions, or to prevent the point from being accurately articulated by confusing the issue (or, possibly, both)?
I understand and appriciate your point. But I have tried numerous times to be polite and "play nice" with her and she constantly misrepresents and distorts; demonstrating a lack of good faith. Should I not treat her as hostile to the points I raise when the substance of her arguments already shows her to be as such?
Is it more rude to attempt to decieve or to call someone on their attempt to decieve?