You need a Ford specific scanner to get the transmission DTC(s). Then you can make a guess on what it is.
So the whole solenoid pack is like $300? Is this what I need?
I think that it is possible that all you need is the solenoid pack. (It may also be possible that it is a wiring issue or a PCM problem, but the odds are better that it is the solenoid valve assembly.)
I think that it is also possible that you have mechanical problems with the transmission (the whole thing may be shot), so no promises on the valve assembly alone fixing it.
Another question too. When a new pcm is "married" to the cluster/module, can one swap back the old pcm without the reprogram procedure? Or are the modules/cluster married to the pcm as well?
Are the valve body/solenoid pack interchangeable between 5r55n and 5r55s transmissions? Does anyone know?
Are the valve body/solenoid pack interchangeable between 5r55n and 5r55s transmissions? Does anyone know?