Also Don... I asked you at one point if you were a 64 year old virgin. You never commented, (which is ok). If you are,,, then I commend you for that. Nothing wrong with that.
However,,, I will also ask you if you are a divorcee. I am... mostly not by my choice. So now i will mention other scripture.
Matthew 19:9
9"And I say to you, whoever divorces his wife, except for immorality, and marries another woman commits adultery."
This takes some careful study... looking BOTH into Jesus' day,,, and Moses' day. About customary Jewish wedding rituals. The typical Jewish marriage started with an agreement,,, between the Father and the Bridegroom. A verbal "contact" was drawn up... and settled by the Father and the Bridegroom drinking a cup of WINE together.
After this,,, the Bride and Bridegroom... were in pre-marriage, (engaged by our modern terms),,, and the Bridegroom went away to His Fathers House... to "add a room". However... if at any time during this year,,, the Bridegroom decided he didn't want his bride,,, he could negate the contract... thus being considered a divorce. It didn't havre to be for adultery during the engagement... but could be just for second thoughts about the bride to be.
Thus the talk in Matthew, (and elsewhere), where if the Bridegroom issued a cartificate of divorce, (other than for unfaithfulness),,, he causes the woman to commit adultery.
This gets even more complicated to one degree when it comes to Jesus' comments about the Bridegroom.... and much more. Jesus never intended to divorce those that follwed and believed in Him, (the TRUE Bride). Jesus made a contract with THE FATHER,,, thus His mention that in His Fathers House are "many rooms"... and that He "goes to prepare a place for us", (same as the earthly Jewish contract between a Bride's Father and the Bridegroom).
Sooo... after a year of the bridegroom adding a room to his fathter's house,,, on an unannouced day... the bridegroom would return for his bride. There were "bridesmaids",,, with "lamps and extra oil"... that were "watching" for the bridegroom,,, and they needed to make sure thay had enough oil to last to the time the bridegroom returned.
When the bridesmaids saw the Bridegroom return,,, they would light their lamps... and there would be a great noise and celebration,,, as the "wedding party" followed the Bridegroom to collect his bride. As the wedding party went to the Bridegrooms House/Room,,, the door would be locked... so no intruders could be part of the wedding party/celebration.
However... if people that were invited to the "Wedding Feast" didn't come,,, the Bridegroom would then open up His Fathers House,,, to let other people enjoy the "Feast" and the "Wedding Banquet".
Don,,, if you can't see the "literal" metaphor that Jesus gave all through Scripture... in relation to the culture he live in,,, and was trying to reach... then you are spiritually as blind as a bat.
What about Jesus' parable about the "workers of the field"??? Jesus' teaching was for those that come to salvation early in life... not to be jealous of those that found salvation later in life! And not to be jealous that they got the same exact reward!!!
What about where Jesus tells a young man to follow Him... and the man says he is willing to do so,,, but needs to bury his father first??? What does Jesus tell him???
Luke 9:57-62
57As they were going along the road, someone said to Him, “I will follow You wherever You go.” 58And Jesus said to him, “The foxes have holes and the birds of the air have nests, but the Son of Man has nowhere to lay His head.” 59And He said to another, “Follow Me.” But he said, “Lord, permit me first to go and bury my father.” 60But He said to him, “Allow the dead to bury their own dead; but as for you, go and proclaim everywhere the kingdom of God.” 61Another also said, “I will follow You, Lord; but first permit me to say good-bye to those at home.” 62But Jesus said to him, “No one, after putting his hand to the plow and looking back, is fit for the kingdom of God.”
So Don... as verse 60 says,,, how do the DEAD bury their OWN DEAD???
I'll give you a clue!!!
Since it's NOT possible for a physically dead person,,, to bury a physically dead person... then Jesus was telling the young man in Luke 60,,, that spiritually Dead people... were going to bury his spiritually, (and physically), Dead father. In other words... Jesus was telling the young man,,, that it was too late for his father... but that the young man still had time,,, if he followed HIM.
Really Don??? And you want to accuse me of not understanding the Bible or it's Theme??? The Bible has pointed that from "DAY ONE"... we all have "Free Will",,, and God allows all of us to make our own choice about HIM. Giving us free will,,, HE will respect our individual choice... and let us go where we choose!!!
So it's OUR CHOICE to be in eternal tormment... OR eternal Paradise,,, just the same as the "good theif" on the cross next to Jesus the moment BEFORE Jesus DIED!!!