Red, gotta give it to you for not killing him.... Id be in jail...for a long time.... your suspension will be fine, but the body damage is in some pretty critical points. A body shop it will charge $$$ but you make sure you buy it back, you can get it done for half what a shop would cost. I hope your insurance co. makes the right choice!!! SAVE HER!!!
I know for a fact they can pull the back qtr dent out, yes it looks bad, but I've seen worse get pulled...the front qtr, not sure - I am sure you didn't think, but you'd have been better off gettin out the passenger side, the front coulda pulled out quite a bit also until the door pushed the qtr in. I know from when a guy hit my very first new car in the front qtr. It was only a few weeks old, brand new... cop has the nerve to tell me the dent in the front qtr was there - but it happend when I opened the door, looked just like that.
There is this shop here that puts your car on a machine and slowly pulls it back.. it is super cool to watch, but takes hours to do right.
Prayers that she gets fixed!!!
Debi